There are many misconceptions about funerals. Here are a few common ones to consider and clarify when planning a service:
- Funerals make us too sad.
Experiencing sadness after losing a loved one is natural, and funerals provide a supportive environment to process those emotions and begin healing. - Funerals are inconvenient.
Setting aside a few hours to honor someone’s life and show support to their loved ones isn’t an inconvenience—it’s an act of love and compassion. - Funerals and cremation can’t go together.
Funerals can take place before cremation, with or without the body present. In fact, embalmed bodies are often cremated afterward. - Funerals are only for religious people.
Funerals don’t have to be religious. Non-religious ceremonies can be just as meaningful and are tailored to reflect the wishes of the deceased or the needs of their family. - Funerals are just for adults.
Mourning isn’t limited by age. Children who loved the deceased should also have the opportunity to attend and grieve alongside others.